grandparents

Day by day we are moving towards modernization but not all of us know the true meaning of this word. Modernization doesn’t mean to wear modern clothes, having stylish vehicles, using smart phones and social media or talking in English. Rather it means be modern through your behaviors and politeness towards your elder and younger ones.

 Most of the time, we don’t care about those people around us, who love us and think for our betterment.  Because of our business and pressure of studies or work we ignore them. But truly we realize there absence when they are no more with us. At that time we feel their importance in our life. But we forget that we are too late to feel it.

 Grandmother and Grandfather are the pillars of a family. There importance to make a family a perfect one is huge.  They know about the world more than us. Their decisions for is much better than what we decide for us. Most of time we ignore their decisions because we think that they aren’t modern like us but we are wrong. We must discuss each and every phase of life with them ,each and every problem with them because they are the one who can give us the best solution of our problems.

 Now a days, most of us prefers to be in a nuclear family, just because we want to enjoy our freedom. But, there are a lot of problems to be in a nuclear family. Most of the time parents are busy in their work and they handover all the responsibilities of their child to a maid. They pay a huge amount of money monthly to the maid. Another thing is that , it is very hard to get a trustworthy maid now a days. So they put the life of their child in a risk. Thus, it is better to be in a joint family because in a joint family one can leave their child to the grandparents to take care of their child.

We must not ignore or disrespect our grandparents. No one play such an important role in our life. We must take care of them and we must take out time from our busy schedule for them.